If teeth are important to you, ask for a picture of a smile. If you like beautiful eyes, ask for a picture without sunglasses. I once met a handsome guy on the transgender dating site. He uploaded several photos, but none of them were smiling. I'm always cautious because it tells me a lot about a person's personality. Anyway, I took the chance to meet him. I wasn't too surprised when he smiled, lost his color, and lost his teeth. I'm not judging, but it doesn't make me want to kiss him.
2.You don't have to reply to every contact you receive.
Be as kind and considerate as possible, but you don't owe anyone anything. As a sweet girl, I used to spend hours responding to emails from men saying "no thanks" and kindly explaining why I thought we were mismatched. Usually, a man can't accept this rejection and will say something nasty in response. Your time is precious. Don't waste it.
3.Before the tranny date, make sure you have a full phone conversation.
This does not mean a full-text conversation. Take the time to see if you can find someone worth pursuing. Trust your instincts. When I notice my intuition and really follow it, it rarely fails me. You want to ask questions, listen carefully(red flags), see how you're feeling in the conversation, and make sure the person on the other end of the line isn't really crazy. We're both kind of weird, but you know what I mean.
4.Meet neutral countries in public.
Drive yourself, don't go to other people's houses. To be honest, I admit I've made this mistake a few times, and rarely with good results. More than once, before we went to the restaurant, I asked a man to drive me home. Once, at the end of a first trans dating, I really kicked a pugnacious guy out of the house. Be wise and safe. Do as I say, not as I do.
5.Keep the first trans date short.
I recommend coffee or something to drink. Give yourself a responsible answer if you need to. This is a powerful rule to follow. When I started dating transgender people online, I made a lot of mistakes and I learned a lot. If you plan a lavish evening with someone you've never met, you'll regret it if he or she doesn't look at all like his or her picture.
6.Don't make love on the first trans date
Well, you're an adult now, and if you want it choose it...However, you know, when things happen too fast, they tend to die soon. Just remember that you are the only one who sleeps on a pillow at night and wake up in the morning facing yourself and your choice.