Whether a man enjoys dating all types of women, cis women and trans women, or has an autonomous and exclusive attraction to trans women, it's easy to keep a low profile of love from experience.
Men who like transgender women are often mocked for being weird, perverted or gay. Unfortunately, they are also sometimes vilified by the transgender community. It's shameful to keep the transgender attraction secret in the first place, and trans women don't want to be someone else's fetish.
As history has grown, transgender visibility and their rights have become an important civil rights issue worldwide, and more men are coming forward to defend their desires and relationships with trans women. Here are some of the considerations and reasons for admitting to being attracted to transgender women.
You know you’re not alone
In the past, when it came to sexual attraction, there was nothing more to it than porn or extreme LGBTQ politics. Even though transgender people have nothing to do with their sexual orientation, gay people are always willing to stand up to the transgender dating community to give them safe Spaces and be their allies.
In today's society, various groups, institutions and organizations including health care, law enforcement, education, some religions, sports, and so on are acknowledging transgender people's identities and their needs.
It was an affirmative act of solidarity
It gives power to all and allows them to stand up and acknowledge the existence, needs and rights of every marginalized group. There are men and women who risk losing their reputation and their lives to publicly declare that their partners are of national friendship, all alike.
For some men, this is a moral imperative
Another option is to continue dehumanizing your girlfriend, hiding her as if loving her is a shameful thing. While having sex with someone has nothing to do with anyone else, there's no need to tell anyone about the race, age, sex, identity, etc. But as the hookup game turns into dating and love, it's clearly problematic to deny your partner a genuine connection to your life.
Declaration of love
To protect our loved ones from harm and hate we sometimes keep a relationship secret, but in a way that would be reprehensible hatred and love that we feel supported and celebrated. As an admirer of transgender women, you should be aware of the issues transgender people face in advance. Now that you have chosen to have a transgender woman as your partner, respect her and let your friends, family and who close to you know she exists.